a girls heart wants what she wants. there's no way you can force her to grow feelings for someone. no way she can love who everyone else wants her to love. who she chooses is her decision, no one else. if she doesn't choose you, then be happy for her as she has chosen someone that will make her feel happy. if she's hurt, be the one that's there for her when she needs to smile. you cannot force love on anyone. just feel blessed if she chooses you. know that she has trusted you to make her happy and give her as much love as she gives you.